Follow Friday: St. Louis Religious Cemetery Databases

I'm going to start participating in the Genealogy Follow Friday meme

For recommending genealogy bloggers, specific blog posts, genealogy websites, or genealogy resources.

I am already creating lists of specific blog posts for my Weekly Genealogy Picks every Sunday.  However, I will focus here on genealogy resources.

The two resources I'm starting with will only be useful for those whose research takes them through St. Louis, Missouri.  However,  these two databases contain burial records from over twenty cemeteries in the region.

• Catholic Cemeteries of the Archdiocese of St. Louis

Here you can search a database for fifteen Catholic cemeteries in the St. Louis archdiocese.  The website implies that the database was completed for those fifteen cemeteries in 2003, and has since been updated in 'real time.'

• Resurrection
• Sts. Peter & Paul
• Mt. Olive
• Calvary
• Sacred Heart
• St. Charles Borromeo
• St. Peter
• St. Ferdinand
• St. Monica
• Our Lady
• Holy Cross
• St. Vincent
• Ste. Philippine
• St. Mary's
• Ascension

For some of the cemeteries, the results provide a lot# with a link, which allows you to easily find everyone else in the same lot.

There is also historical information and photo galleries for each cemetery.

• Jewish Cemetery Index

Though some burials are missing, this database, on the St. Louis Genealogical Society website, contains records from seven Jewish cemeteries.

• Chesed Shel Emeth (1816-2003)
• United Hebrew (1849-2002)
• New Mount Sinai (1853-2002)
• Beth Hamedrosh Hagodol (1920-2002)
• B'Nai Amoona (1901-2003)
• B'Nai Amoona (Old Section) (1872-1895)
• Chevra Kadisha Adas B'Nai Israel (1924-2003)

	It's hard for me to overestimate how much I owe in my personal research to this one database. All four families of my father's grandparents arrived in St. Louis between 1885-1910.  Almost all of the immigrants, and many of the following generations are buried in these cemeteries.

Poetry: A Common Genealogical Mistake

April is National Poetry Month, and as such, as someone who considers themselves a poet at times, I've been trying to write a poem-a-day.  I've been posting several of these poems at my non-Genealogy blog.  Both ReadWritePoem and Poetic Asides have been providing daily prompts, which has helped.  Today's prompt from Poetic Asides inspired the following poem.

A common genealogical mistake

My longest, verified stretches
four hundred fifty years,
eleven generations,
varied professions,
religions...

Wait, that's not what you meant by dead-line?

The prompt, in honor of April 15th, was to write a 'deadline poem.' So I did. Sorta.

The poem was written in a form I came up with four years ago.
Each of the 7 lines has a set number of syllables.
I call the form, "Jenny."  (Singular and Plural)

Those of a certain age don't need to count the syllables, you already know Jenny's number.
The video below is for everyone else.

Freedom

"Freedom from something is not enough. It should also be freedom for something. Freedom is not safety but opportunity." -- Zechariah Chaffee, Jr.

You powered up your computer with a singular task in mind. Perhaps you wanted to compose a letter to a relative, work on that novel you’ve been trying to write for years, or catalogue your bookshelf. But as soon as you got started, you saw the icon. You know the one.

Internet Explorer, Firefox, Camino, Safari, Opera, or your internet browser of choice. “I’ll just quickly check my email,” you said to yourself. “And then I’ll get right back to this.” Well, you checked your email, then you logged onto Facebook, and then you had to check Google News.  And before you knew it, an hour or two had passed, and you hadn’t returned to that singular task you had sat down to do.  And now you're reading my blog post!

If the above sounds familiar, you might want to investigate Freedom.

A software applicaton with a very narrow mission.  You enter the number of minutes of freedom you desire (from 10 minutes to 8 hours) and it disables your internet access for that length of time.  If you have the urge to cheat, you have to completely reboot the computer.  This may be just enough of an inconvenience to keep you focused on your task.

There's a freeware version for the Mac, which gently reminds you that it's the freeware version.  There's a $10 non-nagging version for both the Mac and PC.  What price freedom?  $10 seems low.

It seems the application has been around for two years, but I'm just now discovering it.  I'm glad I did.

Disclaimer: No one paid me anything to write this blog post.  (And I wrote most of it in Microsoft Word, while Freedom was running.)

Wordless Wednesday: Van Every Apiary

Van Every Bee Yard - unknown year (1903-1925) - unknown woman

Another Apiary

Excuse Me, What is This?

James Tanner at Genealogy’s Star has a post about Genealogy Software on the Mac.

The gist is that the offerings aren’t as feature-rich as PC genealogy software, with the best option a solution for Mac users being to run Windows using the Parallels software, if they are familiar enough with both Mac and PC environments to not be confused by it. [Sentence revised based on follow-up entry at Genealogy's Star.]

Having used Mac software since I began my family history obsession 3 years ago, I can’t really argue with his premise that PC software is better, as I haven’t used any of the PC software.

However, he links to a Software Review site, TopTenReviews, which lists Mac Genealogy software, and itemizes which ones have which features. I was shocked, looking down the list of features my software allegedly doesn’t have.

We’re going to play a game now I have entitled, “Excuse me, what is this?” I will list a feature that TopTenReviews claims that iFamily software doesn’t have, and then I will display a screenshot, or two.

1) Filtering Options “Filters individuals in database according to user specified criteria”

If you only wish to filter on the contents of one field, the easiest way to accomplish this is the search box on the main navigation window:

Above we see a list of criteria we can filter upon

And here I have filtered a list of individuals who died in Texas.

For more complex filters, there's the Filtered People Report

Above I am filtering for the surname Newmark, birth year prior to 1950, and birth place in London.

2) Flags/Labels “puts flags or labels on incomplete or noteworthy individuals”

You will note that in the search box above, one of the categories you can search on is “Notes.” You can put any coded labels you want to put into the notes section of an individual’s entry, and then search for that label.

3) Geographic tracking “tracks locations of ancestors and events”

iFamily has a nice Google Maps interface. Pictured below.

There may be other geographic functions iFamily doesn't do.

4) Ancestor chart

(The names are cutoff as I sized the chart to the window, and I am using a small laptop.  iFamily does work a little better on larger desktop monitors, and the iFamily website recommends a 17inch screen.)

5) Descendant chart

 6) output formats

a) web/html

b) cd/dvd

You can certainly burn a CD or DVD if you are exporting a website, as you can see above.

c) pdf

Well, first, you can print. And on most printers today, I believe, you can print to PDF. But let's say your printer doesn't do that.

 Do you see the "Save as PDF" button above for this descendant chart?

(Horizontal charts are possible, as well as the traditional vertical charts I showed in #4 and #5.)

The navigation window for iFamily is an ancestor/descendant chart in itself, and you can print directly from it. (If I had a larger monitor, more generations would be readable.)  As you can see below, PDF is one of the export options.

Finally, under user support, TopTenReviews claims there is no User Forum.  (I've linked to the User Forum for you.  The oldest post on the user forum is dated 2006.)

It also claims there is no email contact

The contact button on the left is a direct email link.  You can also see a link to the forums.

I admit I am not as familiar with the other Mac Software Apps.  I've experimented with MacFamilyTree and Reunion, but felt their graphical user interfaces weren't as welcoming as iFamily's. Still, if the TopTenReviews itemization is filled with inaccuracies for iFamily, I don't put a lot of faith in their list of features for the other software. 

iFamily is the least expensive of the primary Mac software options, and I will be the first to admit that there are some deficiencies, primarily in the area of charts and reports.  For many the biggest void may be the ability to print ahnentafel and register reports.

However, Personal Ancestry Writer II is a free software program you can download and use whenever you want to print out either one of these reports.  It has a primitive interface, which I wouldn't want to use for everything else, but you can open any gedcom in it and print out the reports you need.

GRAMPS (free/open source) is also working on a Mac Version, which I reviewed back in September.  I haven't checked to see if they've fixed the bugs I noted back then, but it has Register, Ahnentafel, and Henry reports.

In short -- Mac genealogy software may not be as feature rich as some PC options.  I have no means of comparison.  But the checklist of features on TopTenReviews Mac Genealogy page is filled with inaccuracies when it comes to at least one software package.

Amanuensis Monday: A Wedding and a War

Amanuensis: A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another.

I continue my project to transcribe family letters, journals, audiotapes, and other historical artifacts. Not only do the documents contain genealogical information, the words breathe life into kin - some I never met - others I see a time in their life before I knew them. If you choose to join me in Amanuensis Monday and post your transcriptions, feel free to add a link to your post in the comments.

This week I continue a transcription of a family history tape recorded in 1987 between my grandmother, "Sissie" (Feinstein) Newmark, and a professional oral historian. This section begins after my grandmother has finished discussing her graduation from high school.

Ancestor Approved Award

TransylvanianDutch has been chosen for the “Ancestor Approved” award by four separate blogs:

Ginisology
Wild Rhododendrons
Climbing My Family Tree
My Ancestors and Me

I want to express my gratitude to all four bloggers. I like to think my ancestors do approve of what I am doing here.

This award has been making the rounds on genealogy blogs. It was initiated a couple weeks ago by Leslie Ann Ballou at Ancestors Live Here

“As a recipient of this award I ask that you list ten things you have learned about any of your ancestors that has surprised, humbled, or enlightened you and pass it along to ten other bloggers who you feel are doing their ancestors proud.”

Ten things I've learned which have surprised, humbled, or enlightened.

1) My second great grandfather, Selig Feinstein, filed a patent
2) Selig was a blacksmith for his first ten years in America. The family knew of his success in the real estate business, but that was actually his third career.
3) I also discovered Selig was very active in the local religious charitable community, helping to form schools, and raise funds for the poor.
4) My great grandfather, Herman Feinstein, drove a jitney taxi.
5) My grandfather, Martin Deutsch, may have been a direct male descendant of Aaron
6) My Denyer ancestors may have emigrated from America for a couple years, before America expanded to include them again. It’s unclear when they entered Texas.
7) A bit of humor my great grandmother, Bertha Cruvant, liked to share, may have been rooted in Gematria.
8) Seven out of eight of my paternal second great grandparents are buried in St. Louis, where I have lived most of my life.
9) My eighth great grandfather, Myndert Frederickse, owned a slave.
10) Hartley and Denyer relatives testified in front of The Dawes Commission, hoping they would be granted land based on their Choctaw ancestry. (Their application was rejected, as they didn't have enough proof.)

I’m going to refrain from choosing ten blogs. It’s too difficult of a decision. However, I will pass it on to one. This sounds like it would be a more difficult decision, but it’s easy – Leslie Ann Ballou, of Ancestors Live Here.

It appears, even though she began this, and passed it on to the first ten people, no one has given it back to her yet – or at least, she hasn’t listed her “ten things that surprised, humbled, or enlightened.” It's now her turn.

Weekly Genealogy Picks

Weekly Genealogy Picks -- April 4 to April 10
from genealogy blogs, newspaper articles and elsewhere

Nancy at My Ancestors and Me provides a few forms she has created for research purposes, including a checklist and a Fact/Opinion/Search chart.

An authorless news article declares that family tree research can cause family conflict. Of course tactless researchers are likely to come into conflict with family members over other reasons, if not family research.

Dan Curtis discusses steps to starting your own personal historian business.

Find My Ancestor discusses Graveyard Preparedness, providing tips to prepare the researcher for a trip to the cemetery. This is the fifth part in a series.

Sharon at Kindred Footprints discusses a recent trip to Thorold, Ontario, where many Loyalist families ended up after the American Revolution (including my Swayze ancestors). She also shares some photographs of the area.

Kimberly Powell at About.com Genealogy explains why your ancestor's name was likely not changed at Ellis Island. (Shortly afterwards, by your ancestor, possibly. But not by someone at Ellis Island.)

Randy Seaver at the Graveyard Rabbit Online Journal researches the European practice of renting and reuse of burial plots.

ProGenealogists has an organized list of genealogical fallacies. (hat/tip: Midwestern MicroHistory)

Google Earth helped discover rare Hominid ancestor

Recently two elderly Florida men discovered they're half-brothers.

"In the fall of 1945, a Soviet soldier hoisted a 5-year-old boy aloft and paraded him through a Lithuanian synagogue that had been closed throughout a long Nazi occupation." Both recalled the incident, and over the years, told family, and friends. One of the tellings resulted in a song being written and recorded, and through the song, 65 years later, the two were reunited. The soldier had become a rabbi in Oak Park, Michigan. And the five year old kid... On the JewishGen blog you can read the story, and listen to the song. (Yom HaShoah - Holocaust Remembrance Day, begins at sunset tonight. Many sites say it began last night, but it is officially pushed forward or back a day so it isn't adjacent to the Sabbath.)

Schelly Talalay Dardashti at Tracing the Tribe highlights the Memorials for Vanished Communities database at the Israeli Genealogical Society. The database contains memorials for nearly 2,000 destroyed communities.

Other Weekly Lists

• Best of the Genea-blogs - from Randy Seaver at Genea-Musings.
  

• Genealogy News Corral - from Diane Haddad at GenealogyInsider.

• Follow Friday - from Greta at Greta's Genealogy Bog

• Genealogy Round Up - From Megan Smolenyak Smolenyak at Megan's Roots World

• Monday Link Round Up - from Dan Curtis
  

• New Genealogy Blogs and Upcoming Genealogy Blogging Events - from Thomas MacEntee at Geneabloggers

Amanuensis Monday: April 5th participants

• Joan Hill at Roots'n'Leaves
• John Newmark at TransylvanianDutch
• Heather Wilkinson Rojo at Nutfield Genealogy
• Randy Seaver at Genea-Musings

If you participated, but don't appear on this list, let me know.

Parshat Shemini and me

As I recently learned there's a chance I am a descendant of Moses' brother, Aaron (my maternal grandfather being the most recent direct-male descendant in my line) - I found the below video more relevant. If Aaron is an ancestor, it's an animated song of a tragedy in my family's history.

G-dcast provides an animated synopsis of the weekly Torah portion, and Parshat Shemini is the weekly portion that will be read in Synagogues across the world this Shabbat. (Parshat is the Hebrew word for 'portion,' and Shemini is the Hebrew word for 'eighth.' The name of each Torah portion is just the first distinctive word in the section, and has no significance beyond that.)



Parshat Shemini from G-dcast.com

More Torah cartoons at www.g-dcast.com

Wordless Wednesday: My grandmother, Myrtle Van Every - age 9

What Do You Do with Conflicting Evidence

This entry has been percolating in my mind for a few weeks. In the first episode of Who Do You Think They Are viewers were shown that it is possible to find conflicting evidence. That historical documents aren't always correct.

Sarah Jessica Parker's ancestor, John Hodge, is mentioned in an obituary of his son as having died in 1849 enroute to California. But he appears in the 1850 California Census. Further research showed that he died in California in a gold-mining accident. Probably in the years between his death and his son's death "dying in California searching for gold" became "dying enroute to California." It's not unusual for family stories to be less than 100% accurate.

I wonder if some viewers jumped to the conclusion that the census was obviously the correct document, as it was more reliable than an obituary written years later. On the contrary, it was equally possible for the result of the research to be the opposite.

It was possible that the individual listed in the 1850 census and the individual listed in the Ohio obituary were the same, but the obituary was correct that he had died enroute to California.

At first glance this might seem an impossibility; If he died enroute, how could he end up in the census? But if there was someone in California waiting for him to arrive, a business partner perhaps, who didn't know he was dead, they could have mentioned his name to the census taker. Sure, they weren't supposed to do that. But maybe they figured that he was going to show up any day, and he ought to be counted.

Incorrect information on the census isn't uncommon. And it's not always the fault of the census taker. Lots of people lie. And others don't know the truth. I came across one census that listed children who had been dead for a decade. I have no clue who answered the door and provided this misinformation, or why. (But since the only census these two children should have appeared on was the 1890 census, which was destroyed, it is kind of nice, albeit morbid, that they appeared on the 1900 census too.)

Vital Records, even though they are usually considered "Primary Records," also have errors on them. The birth certificate of my great uncle, Allen Deutsch, gives his name as 'Adolph' - and no certificate of correction was ever filed. Family agrees his birth name wasn't "Allen," but say it was Abraham, after his grandfather. While there was certainly reason for the 'family story' to change post-1939, he was born in 1914, and there is no record of the name 'Adolph' being used in the early years. Abraham appears on the 1920 census, and Albert appears on the 1930 census, suggesting the migration to "Allen" had begun.


There are other errors on the document. It says Allen was the 7th child, but he was the 8th, as one had died in Europe. The document says both parents were born in Varmezo. This matches his father's military documents. However, it's known his mother came from the village of Margitta.

Birth Affidavits (filled out when birth certificates were unavailable) also can be unreliable for obvious reasons. Either the individual didn't know the truth, or intentionally provided incorrect information. While I would like to find evidence to support the former, with respect to my maternal grandmother's Birth Affidavit, I have difficulty believing she and her sister forgot what year she was born. Every census my grandmother appears in, including the 1945 Florida State Census, her age is correct. However, in October of 1945, she declared she was born five years later, and her older sister acted as witness. My best guess is my grandmother thought she might have to look for a job, and felt it would be easier if she were 40, rather than 45.

When conflicting evidence is discovered, there's no quick and easy Rock-Paper-Scissors (or even a Rock-Paper-Scissors-Lizard-Spock) method to figuring out which document is correct. Vital records don't always beat census reports, which don't always beat family lore. The only solution is further research, with the hope of uncovering more documentation that clarifies the situation.

Amanuensis Monday: 1909 Postcards to my Great Grandmother

Amanuensis: A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another.

I continue my project to transcribe family letters, journals, audiotapes, and other historical artifacts. Not only do the documents contain genealogical information, the words breathe life into kin - some I never met - others I see a time in their life before I knew them. If you choose to join me in Amanuensis Monday and post your transcriptions, feel free to add a link to your post in the comments.

This week I am sharing a couple postcards my great grandmother, Margaret Jane (Denyer) Van Every received from her son and daughter-in-law in 1909.

Weekly Genealogy Picks

Weekly Genealogy Picks -- March 28 to April 3
from genealogy blogs, newspaper articles and elsewhere

James Tanner at Genealogy's Star suggests there's a genealogical goldmine at Google Maps. He's right. I was unaware that the 'browse directory' tab in the My Maps feature led to apps. I'd seen it before, but assumed they were public maps other users had created.

Julie Cahill Tarr at GenBlog reminds us that a book's index isn't always complete.

Carolyn Barkley at Genealogy and Family History discusses using Ebay as a genealogy research tool. While I had already been conducting surname searches on it, I hadn't considered using it in some other ways she mentions.

Ask Olive Tree discusses the markings on passenger manifests.

Dick Eastman at Eastman's Online Genealogy Newsletter says You are Probably Descended from Charlemagne. He says, "professional genealogists tell us that Charlemagne appears in almost every European descendant's family tree." I accept that, mathematically. I also know that the earlier 'proven' ancestries linking my ancestors through Anneka Jans to William the Silent have been called into question, as have the connections drawn between another ancestor, Barnabas Horton's wife, Sarah Wines, and her Mapes descent from Charlemagne. The issue is not whether mathematically we all must be descended from Charlemagne - the issue is can we accept as accurate any descent that claims we are?

Lynn Palermo at The Armchair Genealogist asks Are We Overcoming the Genealogy Stereotype?

Wired Magazine notes that on March 30, 1848, the Niagara Falls stopped. And disappeared. And everyone freaked out. It was only temporary, though. I have relatives who may have been in the area at the time. I wonder how they reacted.

Megan Smolenyak Smolenyak at The Huffington Post reports that The Belgian Red Star Line is seeking emigrant stories.

Apple at Apple's Tree shares an important blogging tip. Provide some way for readers to contact you. This becomes crucial if your comment-system is broken. And that happens more often than you might think. If we can't comment, and you don't have an email address listed on your blog, there's no way for us to tell you we can't comment.

The Southern California Genealogical Society seems to have been the first to note that Who Do You Think You Are altered their episode schedule. They replaced a new episode on April 9th with a repeat of the first episode. April 16th remained a skipped week, resulting in an extension of the run.

Jasia at CreativeGene has released the 92nd Carnival of Genealogy (theme: Dance!) The theme for the next edition will be "series how-to" articles. More information.

Other Weekly Lists

• Best of the Genea-blogs - from Randy Seaver at Genea-Musings may return this week, now that he is back from his vacation and caught up on his reading. (update: or he may decide to recover from his jet lag first.)
  

• Genealogy News Corral - from Diane Haddad at GenealogyInsider.

• Follow Friday - from Greta at Greta's Genealogy Bog

• Genealogy Round Up - From Megan Smolenyak Smolenyak at Megan's Roots World
  

• New Genealogy Blogs and Upcoming Genealogy Blogging Events - from Thomas MacEntee at Geneabloggers

I'm also going to start listing those who joined me in the past week with the Amanuensis Monday blogging meme.

Amanuensis Monday: March 29th participants

• Joan Hill at Roots'n'Leaves
• John Newmark at TransylvanianDutch
• Heather Wilkinson Rojo at Nutfield Genealogy
• Randy Seaver at Genea-Musings

If you participated, but don't appear on this list, let me know.

What You May Have Missed

Are you reading this on Facebook? Or perhaps through Google’s Reader, Bloglines, or another newsreader?

If so, and you haven’t actually visited my blog lately, there are a few things you might have missed.

Here, have a visit

At the top of the screen, below the masthead, you will see links to

• MO Resources
• IL Resources
• US/World Resources
• Family History Documents
• Amanuensis Monday Index

I have gathered together some of my local favorite genealogy research sites for the states of Missouri and Illinois, where a lot of my research has focused, as well as some more general resources that cover a broader geographical scope.

Under Family History Documents I’ve linked to genealogy books and other resources I’ve found digitized online that relate to my family history. This mostly pertains to my maternal ancestry, though I have found some online interviews of paternal cousins, to which I link.

I also have a chronological timeline of all my Amanuensis Monday entries.

On the left hand side, underneath all the methods of subscribing to my blog posts (email, audio, and traditional RSS feeds) you’ll see a link to my ahnentafel chart (a chart of my ancestors).

If you continue scrolling down, past the monthly archives of posts, you’ll see links to categories. These are helpful if you are interested in seeing all the posts I have written mentioning a particular surname, or geographical location.

If you scroll all the way down, past my ‘blogroll’ (a list of blogs I read, which I have just updated.) You’ll ultimately see a poem I wrote in 2008 entitled, “Divergent, yet Intersecting.”

SNGF: Degrees of Separation

This week's Saturday Night Genealogy Fun over at Genea-Musings looked fun, but was slightly depressing.

1) Find an ancestral line that stretches back to the time of the US Revolutionary War (1775-1783), about 230 years. Define your person-to-person connection (the person actually met the next person on the list) back to a historical figure from that time.

Since the challenge only specified time, and not location, I actually considered seeing what I could do with my father's chart. The earliest ancestor I have is a Meer Kruvond born "before 1795." I can definitely imagine parents, but I have no idea who they would have come in contact with in Cekiske, Kaunas, Lithuania. I remember my great grandmother, Bertha (Cruvant) Newmark, quite well, so I could get off to a very good start on that chain.

So I turned my attention to my mother's side, and that's when I realized how few generations I was able to skip in the process.

1) I know my mother.
2) My mother knew her mother, Myrtle (Van Every) Deutsch (1900-1951).
3) Myrtle Van Every knew her father, Melvin Van Every (1863-1929)
4) Melvin Van Every knew his grandfather, Andrew Van Every (1798-1873). (In a letter Melvin wrote Myrtle, he recalls receiving a half-dime from his grandfather.)
5) Andrew Van Every knew his father, David Van Every (1757-1820)

David Van Every, a loyalist from Poughkeepsie, NY, served under the leadership of Colonel John Butler, in Butler's Rangers. David also served very briefly in the New York militia, before joining the Loyalist side...I'm not sure who he met while there.

Or I could take a slight detour

4) Melvin Van Every knew his mother, Abigail Stuart (1825-1866), albeit only for three years.
5) Abigail most likely knew her grandfather, Israel Swayze, Jr (1753-1844)

Israel Swayze, Jr was a loyalist from Hope, New Jersey. I'm not sure where he served, but once he migrated to Niagara, he himself became quite prominent locally.

THE BEAVERDAMS CHURCH 1832: Early in the 1790's a group of settlers in this area had been converted to Methodism and formed a Class with in 1795, was included in the newly-established Niagara Circuit. Services were held in the home of a prominent local settler, Israel Swayze, and camp meetings took place on his property. - Beaverdams Church Historical Plaque

Town meetings were also held in his home between 1806 and 1809.

Note: Israel Jr's grandfather, Judge Samuel Swayze, is my shared ancestor with the late actor.

Genealogy Shocker: Lucille Ball married her grandson

Every genealogist knows that everything in the Family Trees uploaded to Ancestry.com is undeniably true.

So it's a fact: Lucille Ball married her grandson

Since you have to have an account on Ancestry to view the page, I have converted it to graphic form. Apparently Desi is related to a whole bunch of people -- I only show the first of six pages below. They are all undeniably true.

Ignore the warning box Ancestry includes in the upper right.

Happy April Fools Day

John the Jester wishes everyone a Happy April Fools Day



The one day a year everyone acts foolish, on purpose!

(photograph from the 2002 St. Louis Renaissance Festival)

Another Easter Greeting - On Children - Khalil Gibran

The below letter was sent to my grandmother, Myrtle Van Every Deutsch (1900-1951), by her niece, Elizabeth Campbell (1914-1996), daughter of Evelyn Van Every Campbell Crabtree (1892-1982).

I don't have a year on the letter. Somewhere between 1941 and 1951.

My Darling Tante

Do you like this?

And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of Children."

And he said:

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies, but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The Archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and
He bends you with His might that His Arrow may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the Archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the Arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

This is from a book that was given me recently, and has enchanted me although I do not know whether it is because of the meaning in the words or just the beauty of their sound.

Happy Easter to you and Martin, and Barbara, and Peggy.

-- Betty

***

I post this today as well because it is the start of National Poetry Month. The poem, "On Children," was written by the Lebanese American poet, Khalil Gibran (1883-1931).

It has been set to music and recorded by at least two different artists/groups

On Children - Astrid Seriese



On Children - by Sweet Honey in the Rock

Wal-Mart encroaches on WDYTYA schedule

As others have noted the Who Do You Think You Are schedule for upcoming episodes has changed. (Link to Ancestry's page which has the full schedule. I was unable to find a schedule on NBC's site.)

April 9th they're re-airing the first episode with Sarah Jessica Parker. Repeats are common, and I don't find this horrible. I'm sure many missed it the first time.

April 16 - they're replacing Who Do You Think You Are with a Wal-Mart produced original movie: Secrets of the Mountain. View trailer below:



Family secrets are uncovered in the movie, and it's clear from the tagline "One family's adventure, every family's challenge" that they're linking the movie thematically to WDYTYA. It can be looked at as trying to garner viewership of the movie from WDYTYA fans - or trying to gain more viewership of the final episodes from those who are likely to tune into the movie. Likely both are intended. Whether the tactic will be successful in either direction is open to question.

Update 4/2: I found an old schedule listed somewhere and realized that April 16th was planned as a week off from the start. The change was a repeat being inserted on April 9th, extending the schedule one week.

Wordless Wednesday: Easter Greetings 1944

Easter greetings sent home by my grandfather, Martin Deutsch, in 1944, via v-mail.